I grew up going to church every Sunday, in Norway. The Norwegian church, Lutheran, was the most boring thing ever – I thought back then. It consisted of old hymns, hundreds of years old, a lot of them with a language a child didn’t even understand. The sermon was just long and boring, and as a child I didn’t understand much. In other words, to me, it felt like a really boring long talk with some absolutely not so popular songs that lasted forever (1 WHOLE hour!). I had to sit completely still, wasn’t allowed to talk, make noise or even sleep… Which is what I really wanted to do “early” on a Sunday morning. (Church started at 11 AM). None of my friends went to church either, and it was always a stressful morning with my mom trying to rush us all to get there on time. This made me think this is what churches everywhere was like, just long and boring.
Now, my husband also grew up going to church. He grew up in Chicago, in a Baptist Church with his father being one of the pastors. They also went every Sunday. He was a lot luckier than me, I think, he got to enjoy upbeat gospel music and an energetic congregation. He also look back at the experience as boring sometimes too, sometimes service lasted for 2-3 hours, and sometimes they went to the early service that started at 9 AM. I guess I can understand that he didn’t always love going to church too.Â
I guess, bottom line is, I think no kid really enjoys going to church all the time. I think at some point throughout your childhood everyone would appreciate a break from church. And I think most people like change sometimes, or, I don’t know, but I know both me and Michael enjoys change once in a while.Â
So since we have grown up, been out and about, adults and on our own we have finally found our place. We have tried a few different churches in our time as a married couple and a family. And we have exhausted just about every “excuse” not to go to church. Before we had kids I remember it was so hard to even try to get up early enough to go to church. To actually get out the door before noon, on a Sunday, it just seemed impossible. Any time before 10 AM was too early to wake up!
 Then it was finding a church that we both liked, one church was just a little too black and I felt like an outsider. Other churches was so itsy bitsy tiny that we felt like the only ones there, and some where just a little too white again… There were always some “excuse”, or something not quite right everywhere we seemed to go. And to not go on for too long I won’t even get started on trying to find a church in Utah – we’re just not Mormons…Â
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Now though, I guess we have grown up enough to get over all the excuses. The kids get us up early every day of the week anyway. We feel extremely lucky if we sleep past 7.30 AM! And we are in a big city again with choices and more people and thus, more churches to check out.Â
We have actually found the perfect middle ground, I think. In San Pedro a little south of Los Angeles there is a Seamen’s Church, a Norwegian church. We went there to visit when we first moved to the LA area a year ago, just because it was Norwegian. I have always loved meeting other Norwegians in America, someone else to talk Norwegian to. And, of course, they have the “Grocer”, a little shop where they sell some imported goodies from Norway. Some black licorice, chocolate, soups, fish products and so much more. That little piece of Norway to help you miss it a little less (or more…).
The church is open almost every day of the week, and they have different events too. Not necessarily christian either, but somehow related to Norway/Norwegian.Â
I started going for their “SmÃ¥barnstreff” which is a playdate for young children who’s not in school. The moms sit around and talk and gossip while the kids get to run off some steam in the backyard. We enjoy Norwegian waffles, open faced sandwiches (Norwegian style) and coffee or “saft” (lemonade). It is an awesome meet, both me and Aeris love it!Â
After a while as we got to know the people who live and work at the church we began to feel as a part of the church community. Everyone there is so welcoming and friendly we immediately felt at home there. Now we have some of our closest friends at the church.Â
We really like it at the Norwegian church, the service is just perfect at 1 hour long every time. The songs and hymns are a good mix of some of the good old classics and more modern versions. Not as energetic and upbeat as good gospel music, but not that boring that we fall asleep.
We all get a good input of Norwegian, with some English sprinkled in between. They also have Sunday school that Aeris loves being a part of. They sing children songs, play a game, draw pictures and read stories from the Bible. Aeris has made lots of friends, and everyone loves helping her, play with her and watch her. She just enjoys all the attention! I love how including they are and that they speak a lot of Norwegian to her 🙂Â
One of my favorite parts is after service, the Church Coffee. The church offers a great spread of food, cake and other snacks. They make so much good food! Everyone there are such nice people, and we always meet new people too. Aeris runs around with all the other children, plays and has so much fun. We get to sit around and talk to other adults (!!!), we get new friends, get to talk Norwegian, Michael gets to practice his Norwegian and pick up a few new words. All around, we just love our new way of spending our Sundays!Â
Tomorrow I look forward to testing out another event they have some Mondays, “Strikkis & Svettis”. I have been told they start out with an easy, fun work out, like line dancing, a walk or something else fun. After the “svettis” part they start knitting. I assume there will be all kinds of talking and gossiping going on, and I’m hoping to learn some new knitting tips 🙂Â
Church is also an awesome excuse to dress the kids up in cute little dresses 😀 Enjoy!
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Me and Kamilla dressed up in church.
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Family church picture. The girls dresses are made by their Bestemor (Grandmother) in Norway. Aren’t they pretty?
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At Sunday School

One of the fun toys they have at “SmÃ¥barnstreff”
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